kinda cheesey

So i have been thinking a lot about people and the relationship i share with those people. Most people who know me pretty well know that i am a very blunt and opinionated person and dont take to much of what i say to heart or just dont take me seriously. But i believe in just being real and telling others how it is because in the end if your not honest with them and they come to and asked you why you didnt tell them? what are you going to say...i was trying to spare your  feelings...or i am sorry i just cant be honest with you. I mean come on people it saves so much more time just to say it how it is! In the end i have realized that i tend to be a lil to honest with people thinking that they will take it well and wont get mad because for heaven sakes they asked for my opinion. Well it doesnt always work that way and i end up without the friendship continuing which is the pits!

I am getting off point tho. In my ponderings of these people and the diff. relationships i share with them i have been wondering why it is that i can put all these diff. people in completely diff. groupings. In high school my mom would say i had a group of friends who were my "FUN" friends and then i had my "SMART" friends! haha i used to laugh about it and didnt even think twice about it. Now that i am older i now realize kind of what she may have been trying to point out to me but i think she was sugar coating it a bit because she didnt know how i would react to her really trying to say..."nat i think you need to be careful of who you are hanging out with...you have some great friends but please use good judgement when you are out with these friends. Oh how i wish she might have been a lil blunt about it! GEEEZZZZ. I now understand mom. thanks for the suddle hints that just hit about 5 years to late haha. which leads me to how relationships work. when you love and trust someone the line of comunication is more open and you realize that what that person is trying to tell you they are telling you it out of love for you and because they want you to be happy. Its not just your parents who have this kind of relationship with you it can be your friends as well. I am just know realizing that the relationships you make with people really can have a influence on shaping you for things yet to come in life. Some times those relationships last a while and some are cut short but no matter what i am very grateful for the amazing people in my life!!!